Question: “I am VERY BLUE, and I am married to a SPARKLING YELLOW, if there was one thing you could tell me to do that would improve our relationship, what would it be?”
Thank you for this great question. Your road map to great relationships always begins with an understanding of your own core motive. Remember, ‘first base’ in the game of life is “GET YOURSELF”.
As a BLUE, motivated by intimacy, you are a heavyweight, in the world of personality. You tend to be very purposeful in all you do, and you see life as a very serious endeavor. You have such a strong need for others to understand your deep feelings.
Dr. Taylor Hartman writes in his best selling book, “The People Code”, YELLOWS embody the ultimate lightweight personality”. YELLOWS are motivated by FUN! They love to live life, in the moment, fully engaged. The way they see it, “If we are not enjoying life, right here, right now, what’s the point?”
So, what is ONE THING a BLUE can do to have a better relationship with a YELLOW?
“Lighten up.” “Live life a little more carefree”.
By doing this, you will be “speaking his or her color language”. If you do this with a “clean” motive, genuine service and love, you will see a marked improvement in the relationship.
Life is all about relationships!
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From this Blue, thank you for helping me to see myself and those around me in a lighter, happier way. From Motive Matters, I have learned a lot about myself. I was skeptical at first, but glad that I gave it a chance.
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